SIGNS YOUR FRIEND IS FAKE /JEALOUS OF YOU.
Friendship needs wisdom and knowledge to discern good or bad friends,it’s a journey and also a learning
process.We all know that most people just want to see you doing better but not better than them,so
growing up means you realize a lot of friends aren’t really your friends.Rremember you don’t need a
certain number of friends ,just a number of friends you can be certain of.Here are red flags that your
friends aren’t really true;
1. They never celebrate you;once you give them your good news expecting them to
congratulate you or celebrate ,they do the opposite they may either cusse you
out,or they just say they are happy for you but don’t mean it. Pay attention to how
they respond when you share good news with them.
2. They do not have other friends;your friend should have other friends besides you,by
this you will get to know whether they are loyal to them,if they go gossiping about
them just know that they do the same thing with you.watch how they act with other
people and learn.
3. They are always trying to one –up you;this is a behavior that onecan not stand,you
realizes that your friend is ever doing what you do,if you buy certain
shoes,clothes,phone they end up buying exactly the same things.Also if you start up
a business they open the exact one.Hairstyles too,they want exactly like yours..you
should avoid them because friends should not compete,they should have their own
identity and be confident in themselves.
4. They aligns with you in public but they bash you in private;this means that they
gossip about you in private but in public they want to be around you because they
know people like you,or they love the attention they get when they are around
you,they treat you like a” trophy friend” just because you have connections they
want to be your friend.It can also be because of how you look,your status or
accomplishment.
5. They want to be your friend in private;this means that they are ashamed of you if
they don’t want the public to know that you are friends,they maybe embarrased
about something related to you,maybe your behavior is what makes them not align
you in public.
